LanguageThe language traditionally spoken in the Netherlands is Dutch. However, 89% of the population has learned and is fluent in English, German, French or Spanish. This passion for learning a second language is encouraged by the globalization efforts that the country as a whole extends.
Importance of Negotiation Because the Netherlands is a more feminine society, there is a need and desire for compromise and communication. This is seen clearly not only in day-to-day life of citizens, but also through their political system and businesses. This desire for effective communication between natives and the rest of the world has given birth to organizations such as Pax Ludens and TEN. These organizations help to train businesses and government officials in how to communicate effectively and diplomatically with cultures outside their own.
Like the United States, because of their time orientation, people in the Netherlands have a very direct way of speaking. It is important to get right down to business and not beat around the bush. However, they do so in an informal manner, bringing a sense of comfort to the conversation. The Dutch don't usually initiate conversation with strangers, and it is polite to either be introduced or introduce oneself in certain situations so that all are familiar with each other. In greeting friends, three kisses on the cheek is common and acceptable, but in greeting acquaintances, usually a handshake and the surname are all that are required. For those who are not native speakers of Dutch, it is still important to try. Attempting to speak in the native language is appreciated even if you fail at it horribly. In a business setting, it is important to maintain eye contact. This signifies that you are trustworthy, which is highly valued in Dutch culture. Both your voice and your body language should be low-key and modest. It is looked down upon to be boastful, and is often seen as being rude and ignorant. ReligionThe most commonly seen religion is Catholicism, followed by Protestant, Dutch Reform, and Muslim. Though these religions have had their roots in the Netherlands for hundreds of years, about 40% of the country does not affiliate with any form of religion or denomination. The following graph breaks down the religious demographics of Holland.
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Customs- Appearance is important
- Cleanliness is valued - They believe in hard work and practicality - They do not wish to draw attention to themselves - Boasting is very rude - They are very egalitarian - High tolerance for individual differences - No gender bias - Everyone is allowed an opinion (and to have it heard) - Reserved and formal when dealing with outsiders - Self control is a virtue - They do not ask personal questions - Personal life and Business are separate - Hand shake is a common greeting - flowers should be given in odd numbers - No funeral flowers (lilies) - Wine is not a good gift for dinner - Gifts should be wrapped nicely - Gifts are opened when received - Do not begin eating until the host does - most food (including sandwiches) are eaten with utensils - Salad is not cut, its folded Family Customs Though the Netherlands is a highly individualistic society, because of it's femininity, family continues to be one of the strongest bonds in their society. It is seen as an important economical and structural unit. Children, even after they are grown, stay within a fifteen kilometer radius of their parents and see them on a regular basis.
Marriage in the Netherlands is not arranged, but instead decided through love. However, many do not marry outside of their own social class. Monogamy is the only legal form of marriage in Holland, but heterosexuals and homosexuals are both allowed to marry whomever they'd like. Because of this, marriage happens in two parts: the municipal registration and the religious ceremony (the latter being optional). This allows churches the religious freedom to choose whether or not they would like to marry homosexuals, and it gives homosexuals the right to marry without needing the approval of the church.
Within the family unit, the couple holds mostly an egalitarian relationship in which they are equal to one another. The Dutch make a distinction between blood relatives and relatives through marriage, where blood relatives are seen as most important. By law, inheritance goes to the next-of-kin and you are not allowed to disinherit any of your children, each of them must receive an equal share. |